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Why the Narcissist is Not There for You in Your Time of Need



It’s truly heartbreaking. You get an alarming diagnosis or you lose a beloved pet. When you share this information with the narcissist in your life, instead of receiving compassion and concern, you are met with utter indifference.

Find out why this happens and what to do in this video.

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39 Comments

  • Met Axa

    Mine called himself an Outlaw Angel
    More like a fallen angel.
    He always boo hooed when he pretended to have kidney problems when I think he was just coming down off of meth or crack.
    Nope!
    He didn't even care when my Dad died.
    No support
    Acted somewhat helpful and went 1500 miles up to where my Dad lived.
    Spot on
    He asked right away if me left me anything.
    I lied and said "yes he left me debt" when I'm reality I got over $40.000.
    When his "best friend" was dying in the hospital the best friends wife had to PAY my ex to visit his friend in the hospital.
    I'm pretty sure he robbed her blind.
    I do know the guy has a blue diamond and it came up missing.
    The lady is elderly. And very naive and gullible so he might still be leeching off of her.
    These people are from the devil himself.
    The narc discarded me and left me for a really dumpy looking gay mama's boy whose Mom was dying of cancer a few weeks after we got back and I was grieving heavily.
    The guys Mom died a little while later.
    The ex moved in right after she died for about 6 months and moved out.
    I can't wait til karma pays him back what he owes for preying on grieving people
    Karma is real.
    This guy

  • Dave Palmatier

    KIM YOUR VIDEO HAS HELPED ME , BY THE WAY YOU EXPLAINED IT, WHY THEY CAN'T BE THEIR FOR US, I'M TRYING TO GET MY BRAIN WRAPPED AROUND ALL OF THIS, IT'S SO HARD , I LOVE MY WIFE BUT KNOWING SHE WILL NEVER LOVE ME OR MY CHILDREN LIKE I DO HERS HURTS MORE THEN ME IT HURTS MY FAMILY AND I CAN'T KEEP MAKING EXCUSES FOR HER!! YOU ARE VERY BEAUTIFUL!! I WISH YOU WHERE MY WIFE!! I KNOW THAT SOUNDS A BIT CRAZY BUT I JUST WANT TO BE LOVED AND I'M A GOOD PERSON AND. HAVE A BIG HEART!! IT'S ALL SO MUCH TO TAKE IN!! GOD BLESS YOU, I HOPE YOU HAVE SOMEONE NOW THAT DESERVES YOU!!

  • Pietja D

    More interesting is : how narcistist who are sick vounerable behave towards you? They don't want to be seen vunerable weak sick. You can't see them be underdog. On my case. My narcististic wife had miscarriage and went to the hospital. When I rang her and wanted to come visit her she was like : " I was always independent reyliing on myself. I will manage on my own, I can't rely on you. Don't come. She switched off phone for 3 days, with later excuse" battery was weak ".. When she came out hospital she blamed me I wasn't there, she can't trust me, rely on me in difficult moments" Thats narcistist for you

  • Recovering Baptist

    I turned to my former pastor's widow when I was diagnosed with lymphoma, imagining she'd pray with me; that she'd be a spiritual mentor. What a farce! She manipulated me into putting her and her son's names on my accounts as Executors — and don't think she was offering to take care of my debts after my death. She had me pay OFF my debts, AND pay her $3900, PLUS I gave her son in "ministry" $5 grand to publish his books (while I also had his "ministry" on monthly autopay for $150 — and I'm just a disabled veteran who doesn't have a lot of money), and not once did she offer me ANY help whatsoever in my illness. Finally I wised up that she was using me and removed them as Executors. She only gave me back $3500 too.

  • Terese Urzo

    Good video and very true because he did it to me when I was having surgery… He'll have his day and yes my blood pressure went so low before surgery because he aggravated me with he's narcissist SISTER the other witch she's the leader of the pack thank God I'm away from that family thank God 🙏🤲🙏💃🏽💪💪💪

  • LinYouToo

    The day my father went into hospice care, a so-called friend of mine told me that the wife of a bartender friend of hers had recently lost her job and that to comfort her she was going to make her homemade salsa and canned pickles. Imagine that. And after my father passed away another friend of mine said in so many words at least I got the easy grief because he did not die suddenly.

  • Bibi Roberts

    So true, omg I remember when I was sick and asked my ex husband for a paracetamol cause I felt so rotten, he woukd feel irritated and told me I am behaving like a baby and must wait. He was on computer playing game, which turned out to be a dating site

  • Orphan

    Just leave people! Learned my lesson. Eyes wide open for me. Narcs are fake people.

    Normal doesn't like to be deceived and feel totally stupid when they find out about Narcs. I know been there done that. Im over it.

  • Darren Van Dam

    My "girlfriend" / "best friend" at the time discarded me when my father became very sick and looked likely to die in the next few days. Is this pretty typical, even for a covert?
    She very suddenly stopped having any free time to spend with me at all, constantly citing that she was "just really busy". It seems pretty clear in hindsight that I'd been replaced with a new supply.
    We were both twitch streamers, so that would seem to be how she keeps a constant rotation of new people to supply her needs. I know I'd kind of replaced someone when my time began. But I didn't really know what narcissism was or what I should be looking for. Within a couple of months of the discard, the community had become kind of a hostile place for me, so I just left without really understanding what had gone on, just feeling I'd been unfairly treated.
    I'd get horrible adrenal spikes whenever she was mentioned for months afterwards, is that something a lot of people get after a narc experience?

  • Karen Malmgren

    Once in a while a narcissist does change but almost always to late to stop the damage. My father-in-law was 99% overt narcissist. It took a year of him caring for my mother-in-law ill with cancer which lead to her death to change him. Sad that so many in the family were damaged by his actions before he changed. My husband was damaged most and became somewhat of a covert narcissist. My husband was the most sensitive child in the family. Before his father died my husband was able to spend time with the person his father became later in life and able to find a spot in his heart to forgive and love him.

  • Carolyn Twomey

    14 years ago I had a severe anxiety attack when my narc was in the process of discarding me. The narc notified my sister who contacted my narc father. Long story short no one gave me a shoulder to lean on. It was the darkest day of my life. I realized I was living the plot in the Stepford Wives. The only good out of it was that narc stayed long enough for me to get through the anxiety attack. I have come to the conclusion that my family of origin is the same as my now Ex narc. It's a lonely place I wouldn't wish on another person.

  • mike riolo

    The x narc that was in my life had used situations and struggles that I experienced to further make life more difficult for me doing it all behind my back and pretending to care. Narcissism should be punishable as a criminal offense and believe me this person would be going to court.

  • cheeky Julz

    They will be everything you said but what my ex did was go around and tell people I nearly died while I wasnt there so he would get attention but to me he would say he was glad it happened and tell me to let him Mourn his own feelings. He had a go at me for what he considered me to be too happy.

  • Indirá Camotim

    Omg !!! It does all make sense… not being around just after I gave birth, not ever being around when the kids needed to go to a doctor or hospital, making me go out in knee deep snow, just after I came back from the hospital, had stitches and couldn’t walk, to buy watermelon for Yalda (an Iranian winter ceremony)… wow ! I mean, really !!!!

  • Lauren Hammond

    This is what absolutely destroyed me. I experienced 3 miscarriages last year and he was absolutely awful to me!!! He ended up blaming me for all of the losses, and then compared me to his ex wife who did give him 2 children. Man he loved to see me suffer. luckly I left this marriage early on, however 4 years of this toxic relationship damn near killed me! I cannot wait for the divorce to be final.

  • Preteen Dhillon

    Men are always attracted towards sexy women not good women. That's why men suffer. God is very broad-minded. Sexual organs has been given to test our purity and degradation for temptations not to produce. God is ocean of love, Lust is opposite to Him. He loves those who have love and innocence of children. God created zillions of planets with His broad mindedness. Narrow minded cannot do it. Society's rudimentary views have increased population of this planet to 8 billion. Overpopulation is decreasing natural resources that causing evilness in society. Women who are more innocent and no sexual desires are more happier than men/ lusty women. Single lustless Women are more happier than single men. Lusty women depending on men for happiness are miserable.

  • Adelita Mendoza

    When I had my youngest child with a narc he didn't even hold or touch or even look at our baby. And spend every min telling me how worthless and horrible and fat I am . I had a c section n had asked for help to get up and he said no u figure it out n watched me struggle to get up and did not care.

  • periel

    I’m not sure if my husband is a narcissist. We have an unusual living situation in that we each have our own residences next door to each other. He is constantly telling me (mostly via text) how much he loves and appreciates me but when I was diagnosed with breast cancer almost a year ago, he rarely came over to help me and take care of me even when I was sick from chemo.

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