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The Power to Destroy your Marriage your Narcissistic In-laws – protect yourself Dr. Rhoberta Shaler

Who has the Power to Destroy your Marriage, your Narcissistic In-laws? Narcissistic in-laws
You are not crazy; your in-laws are!
When we fall in love and find the perfect person of our dreams, most of us don’t stop to evaluate their family. Sadly, the man or women of your dreams can have parents that can literally derail your marriage, taking it from a fairy tale to a nightmare, in what feels like an instant. One of my favorite quotes is: “When did my life go from a Hallmark movie to a Lifetime movie?” This was my life.

If you think about it, when people first start dating, the family doesn’t come into the mix until things have moved along in a positive way. When you finally meet their parents, they are on their best behavior. The “mask dial” is set to impress and win your heart. If they have a narcissistic parent, this behavior is an act; they are checking you out and rating you on a potential threat scale. Even during the courtship, the relationship with your partner’s parents generally keeps them on their best behaviors. Remember that your partner is sharing their family with you and it may be the first time they have been vulnerable to have someone else’s eyes on the family relationship, so they are going to really put on a good show (at first anyway).

Over time you may be faced with them testing your boundaries and your loyalty to them and their child, Narcissists are quite famous for creating the “charming mask”; it always starts with the charm and kindness role. They are good at it and it’s easy to get swept up in the excitement of becoming part of your potential mate’s family.

Narcissistic in-laws can make your life a living hell. They will be jealous of you, they will inject themselves into your lives and will do everything to break up your marriage or steal your children. If you are new to this narcissistic world, you should know that narcissist traits can run on a spectrum and not everyone will have all the behaviors we outline below. They do not need to have all of these behaviors, and some might manifest after 30 years of marriage. There are many other types of labels for narcissists, but the two I want you to understand from the beginning are overt and covert.

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All statements made in this video are expressions of the opinion of the speaker, and should be regarded as such. The video is made to serve a therapeutic purpose for the speaker or speakers and to assist others in recognizing and dealing with matters in their own lives which they believe may be similar.

I’m a survivor of Narcissistic abuse and my goal with this channel is to educate other “victims” as they transition to becoming a “survivor”. I believe that education is our best way to heal, and the best way to not become a victim or supply to another narcissist.

Please note: I am not a therapist, psychologist, psychiatrist or coach so use this information as my own personal journey of healing and the information that has been shared with me by friends, other YouTubers, groups and community. This video is not intended to treat or diagnose any condition, if you believe you or a loved one is suffering from narcissistic abuse please use seek any help from your community.



  • Laura E

    Thank you so much Tracy and Dr. Shaler for doing this video on this topic. I'm going through this, and so glad I found your channel. In my case, husband has stood by me and our children, but mother in law has created a smear campaigns with his siblings and other family members against me… Then denies, lies, minimize, and gaslights me after. They have hacked, cyber stalked, gotten Others involved to do her bidding. It's unbelievable. Thank you for helping others and raising awareness. ❤️🙌

  • Erika Valerie

    This is invaluable info! I always need refreshers – my situation with a disability has meant going from part time golden child to full time scapegoat – not only in family dynamics where I am no longer even present or participating, but also with doctors, ONLINE and especially in medical support groups, in my community, etc. These types automatically see and interact with the "idea" of a disabled person as a one up/one down NARCISSISTIC WIN! All I have to do is EXIST to encounter this treatment from relatives, doctors, and shockingly most from OTHER disabled people!!
    I have fallen into that trap more times than I knew was possible due to the dynamics you all describe, which are a constant online in support groups focused on medical issues as well as in narcissistic abuse recovery groups. There is alot of toxic venting and predatory targeting of any available supply that can be singled out for attention and abuse.
    I now want to direct my focus to help others with disabilities and chronic illness who are very active online to become aware of these dynamics. THANK YOU BOTH for being my friend & for guiding me towards health & sanity, which absolutely starts in our mental & emotional lives, no matter the state of our health. LOVE YOU BOTH!

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