Everything You Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse – click on this link: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/faq1.html Parents of codependents teach their offspring to expect only conditional, transactional love: the child is supposed to render a service or fulfil the parent’s wishes in return for affection and compassion, attention and emotion. Ineluctably, the hurt child reacts with rage to this unjust mistreatment. With no recourse to the offending parent, this fury is either directed outwardly, at others (who stand in for the bad parent) – or inwardly. The former solution yields a psychopath, or a passive-aggressive (negativistic) – the latter solution, a masochist. Similarly, with an unavailable parent, the child’s reserve…
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“Every time you judge yourself, you hurt yourself.” I really need to remember this sometimes. I can be my harshest critic #happy #life #quote
“Every time you judge yourself, you hurt yourself.” I really need to remember this sometimes. I can be my harshest critic #happy #life #quote Source by butterflykissl
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False accusations-the one who makes the accusations, abuses the legal system, and gossips about it to get attention will face Karma
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LOVE CANNOT LIVE WHERE THERE IS NO TRUST…. AND WHERE THERE IS NO TRUST, LOVE CANNOT LIVE!!! Quote Revised by Gerard the Gman from NJ -10-8-16….
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What happens when you hurt people? They love you less and forget that they loved you once
What happens when you hurt people? They love you less and forget that they loved you once Source by sayingimages
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this is my life. generation after generation. narcissistic mothers destroy their own families. walk away. no contact. recovery. love those who love you.
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sometimes you can hurt yourself more than anyone can hurt you just by keeping all your feelings hidden
sometimes you can hurt yourself more than anyone can hurt you just by keeping all your feelings hidden Source by charlenewjohnso
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Beware of Narcissists Using Their Bad Childhood as an Excuse to Hurt You
Some narcissists and or cluster B personality types have no shame in making excuses for pulling all types of shenanigans, however; he or she might also use their unresolved pain as an excuse to hurt you. There is never any excuse for the narcissist and or cluster B personality to intentionally set out to influence pain in others, yet it happens often, due to his or her obsession, if not addiction, to obtain narcissistic supply. Please leave comments, like, share and subscribe! Thank you for visiting. BOOK SUGGESTION: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/989371.Terrifying_Transferences My Email: LuminouszZtar@gmail.com My Chat: https://appear.in/luminousz%20ztar For a donation, you can now email me to request for weekend chats. Donations can…
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(Intro to) The Human Magnet Syndrome: Why We Love The People Who Hurt Us By Ross Rosenberg – Review
Ross Rosenberg in the Human Magnet Syndrome explains the mechanics behind every enduring healthy or dysfunctional relationship. The title reminds me of a psychological classic on Borderline personality disorder, “I hate you, don’t leave me”. This book offers different angles from which to look at the generation of human attraction. The main theme describes the unconscious workings at play behind dysfunctional relationships, how they are formed and what makes people stay despite abuse—the codependent narcissist trap, which is what my next video’s going to be about. Affiliate link in the description if you want to check out the book. Thanks for watching! Get 2 FREE audiobooks of Your Choice here…
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Mutual respect does not exist for narcissists. A narcissistic parent feels that they have the right to say or do anything. They do not care who is harmed by their actions or remarks. When they are feeling hurt or paine…
Mutual respect does not exist for narcissists. A narcissistic parent feels that they have the right to say or do anything. They do not care who is harmed by their actions or remarks. When they are feeling hurt or pained, they will lash out at anyone. They believe they are speaking the truth. However, it is their distorted truth, not reality. They must have complete control & everything is a power struggle. Source by lisalivesaloha
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That's exactly why I walked away, mother. You could never admit that you were wrong, and were incapable of saying you were sorry even when I let you know how much your words hurt…
That's exactly why I walked away, mother. You could never admit that you were wrong, and were incapable of saying you were sorry even when I let you know how much your words hurt… Source by msanabria78
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All of our personal relationships…deepen and strengthen when [we] remember to be curious about others' feelings instead of defensive. When someone says: “You hurt me” — that's an invitation into her heart. W…
All of our personal relationships…deepen and strengthen when [we] remember to be curious about others' feelings instead of defensive. When someone says: “You hurt me” — that's an invitation into her heart. When we respond with: “I'm sorry. I'm listening. Please tell me more” we get invited deeper. Can you imagine how much [better our relationships would be] if we could get curious about the pain of strangers instead of defensive? –Momastery Source by lmpsmith
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I dream of having a relationship with someone where this would actually hurt if they said it. As it is, I’ve heard it too many times to care anymore.
I dream of having a relationship with someone where this would actually hurt if they said it. As it is, I’ve heard it too many times to care anymore. Source by dushusmart