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Narcissists Will Do Anything to Obstruct or Sabotage Attempts to Escape / Breakup. Smear Campaign



This is a video excerpt from a 5.5 hour video seminar that is available at Self-Love Recovery Institute ( Selfloverecovery.com ).

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  • Fifi La Fleur

    My narcs sent in a vicious flying monkey to harass and abuse me. He threatened to sue me and damaged my property as well as horrifying emotional & verbal abuse. The ringleader narcs continued to gaslight and invalidate me attempting to rewrite my childhood history of sexual abuse. Everything was denied even though I had discussed it all in therapy since the age of 21 and told my dad’s wife. Some of my family members knew but said I was lying. I recently ended up in the ER with emergency high blood pressure from all the stress and harm. I’m now on blood pressure medication and my physician’s assistant thinks I’ve also developed diabetes. They ostracized me and threw me out of family business.

  • Nina Nickel

    Mine threatens suicide all the time. I am literally only married to him because of his suicidal threats and coercion. I still to this day freak out about it. I still can’t handle the idea of someone doing that on behalf of “me.” So to speak. I wasn’t even dating him. He goes around calling me a cheating spouse but I’m not. I never wanted this. I just didn’t want someone to kill themselves or kill me. I did what I needed to to protect my child. I just can’t do it anymore. He has messaged numerous people through the years threatening suicide on behalf of me so it makes it seem like I am the issue. Finally, his current gf is starting to see the truth. He blamed me for finances when I made 70k on my own. He never has money, nobody knows why either. Now his current gf sees it and I’m not even involved. He threatened suicide the first time due to finances and me leaving as his roommate so he’d lose a source of income

  • D Noble

    Could the covert narc actually cause hidden physical harm?
    For instance, poisoning the spouse/victim with household cleaning products?
    I have a friend who suspects his wife was putting something in his food.
    She knew he was to his breaking point.

  • D Noble

    NM has made comments about how miserable she is and says if she had a gun she would blow her brains out.
    This caused me to keep accepting her abuse.
    When I finally learned she was only controlling me, I offered to buy her a gun.
    I told her the next time she talked about killing herself, I was calling 911.
    She has not done it since.

  • Peggy McPherson

    Before I found my freedom from narc abuse, my narc husband would set me up. Take me somewhere and then abandon me. That was his favorite thing to do! Or he would run way ahead of me going down the street he love to see me panic so hurt and Confused

  • Vegtam Borsson

    Suicide attempt? A girl I know with depression literally told me she was going to overdose and kill herself. I called an ambulance for her and she actually did take an overdose. This was when I was about to dump her. This put off the breakup by a few weeks. I am worried but I do not control her. I was always good to her and loyal, she acted like a narcissist. I just hope she is okay. She has depression and does not express herself, treated me like crap and was not loyal, or at least made me feel as though she was not loyal. Half expecting a shit storm to come my way but all clear so far.

  • Tadeusz Solowiej

    Mr. Ross Rosenberg,
    Thanks again for great topics. Have you ever had situation, when on the top what you presented in this video, narcissistic mother used small children as Her shield and bargaining tools, manipulating them with false and scary stories against father, threatening the spouse that He will never see the children again?
    I understand you are busy man.
    Thank you in advance if you could express your thoughts on this scenario.

  • DJ ForJustice

    Thank you so,so,so much for your HELP, education, and videos on YouTube and your book ROSS, AND YOUR HELP MAY HELP SAVE MY LIFE! AND HELP ME STAY SAFE. & HELP ME GET LEGAL REPRESENTATION AND POLICE PROTECTION….10/22/2019!!!! WE ARE WORKING ON MAKING SURE (***DJ.DRB.USA **) CAN GET AWAY WITHOUT ANY HARM TO HER PROPERTY, OR PERSON!?!!(DJ.DEB.USA.*") SUPPORTS ROSS R. 200%

  • Cameo Bear

    You just described my last relationship I was able to finally break free from years ago. Dr. Vaknin and another guy…Carver? I think from MSN msg boards info helped identify that I was as much a problem because I kept letting it happen over and over. Learning to get to the point of understanding no contact and finally following through saved my life. LITERALLY as he tried to kill me several times. Learning that I'd been DISSOCIATIVE since childhood trauma and severe sexual abuse explained the rinse/repeat cycle I couldn't for the life of me understand. If I hadn't been free of this and become a new, whole and complete person I wouldn't have survived cancer and several other chronic illnesses so far. Truly excellent synopsis here I will be sharing. It IS POSSIBLE to come out on the other side and look back in wonder that you actually ever lived like that and the relief and joy you will never have to again. I'm in the midst of a storm with insane family right now but I can see the Tasmanian devil spins and invisible towers they try to pull down. I speak up for myself but know they cannot comprehend reason. Being able to see the forest and not running head first into trees is where I am but knowing they have one foot nailed to the floor is difficult to watch.

  • Marsha McDonald

    Fifi You better run. Get away
    From them. Move to another
    City and never go back.
    Create your own family
    With women at church.
    If you keep going back
    To these psychos, they will
    Make you have a stroke,
    Lose all your self esteem,
    Have depression and they
    Will laugh. They are so
    Mean, rude, dangerous.
    Learn to love yourself .
    I have family just like
    Yours. I kept going back
    Because I loved them.
    But they are dangerously
    Insane and it’s a game to
    Cripple you. Study symptoms
    Of NPD, sociopath. Your too
    Good for this scenario.
    Save yourself 🏃‍♀️ get outta
    There and do not ever call
    Them.!!!!

  • Mike

    Used to have all kinds of friends before I met the narc then she turned everyone against me. Just cause someone doesn't have many friends doesn't make them a narc or sociopath it might be cause they trusted someone to much that person they trusted wasn't who they presented themselves to be so therefore when you noticed the mask that slipped they already stole everything from you . Through there manipulative tactics so gradually overtime they steal our friends , family , status . Narcissist don't like making deals everything they do has a motive and that's probably a very negative motive . They start being nice after being very abusive then they act if nothing happened if you call them out . Covert narcissist I know are both covert and overt and sometimes malignant . Narcissist are very jealous , envious , greedy , wannabe , fake , two timing people . Make you wonder if they were also abused in their childhood as too why they act the way they do.

  • Gloria Taylor

    THE ONLY THING I DISAGREE WITH IS… HOW SOME OF THESE NARC PRO'S.. SAY THIS NARCISSISM… COMES FROM CHILDHOOD TRAUMAS!!!! NOT TRUE. I KNOW MANY NARCS HAD WONDERFUL CHILDHOOD.. IT'S JUS THIS EERIE… SPIRIT THEIR BORN WITH !!! THEY DEVELOP AND GET WISER… AS THEY GET OLDER!!!

  • D4nisworld

    Covert: very subtle but extremely damaging to whoever their victims are esp. if married to one. I bet if a psychotherapists was to spend a little longer then the 30 min session they would start seeing the narcissist traits. The narcissist knows this. Spend 2 hours with one in close proximity and you will see the subtle traits come out.
    Psychotherapists are just in it for the money and to look good on social media. They not really interested in finding a solution. No one is bothered as long it don’t affect them.

  • Rhonda Nelson

    What is an ASPD? You are justifying narcissistic abuse. What is an SLD? I grew up with narcissists. You are grooming people to be accepting of their family members suicide. Because I know Narcissism they will blame the victim " You did it to yourself" they will say. Even though they spent their lifetimes destroying their families. Emotional , financial, psychological terror. How the hell do think the real victim can escape when a family member and the State destroyed every financial resource and what small child isn't afraid to be abandoned by the people that brought them into the world and are supposed to love, nurture and care for them? You are promoting this atrocity. Do you think playing vicious games , intentionally destroying people is acceptable. I'm spotting a narcissist. Your one of them promoting the psychological werfare. I don't know who your audience is but I can safely assume they are law enforcement, medical providers, attorneys and business owners. You sound like a narc abuse coach. You are just what the world needs no compassion, no empathy, no humainty with more emphasis and promotion of abuse of children helpless and vulnerable adults unable to protect themselves from the evil dialogue of the priviiledged, educated, selfish, greedy, in human, pathological lying narcs.Great work!

  • J.L. Mc

    The Covert Christian narcissist (that used to in my life narcissist) tapped my kitchen window were I was sitting, very late last nite, I jumped the dog went nuts. I said loudly who's there as I stared out the door peep hole. No one answered. I put the outside lite on and walked outside. No one was there. I woke to find a flyer (paper advertising) laying on my front door mat. It stated [Are you anxious, struggling with mental health and trying to find peace, come and find true peace ect ect ect]. Now, you tell me Dr Ross, is this gasliting?

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