Narcissists do not approach you with the goal of knowing you at the heart level. To them, you have a function to fill, that’s it. Psychotherapist Dr. Les Carter highlights the difference between engaging with others as a transaction versus connecting with others in true relationship.
Dr. Les Carter is a best selling author and therapist who lives in Dallas, Tx. In the past 39 years he has conducted over 60,000 counseling sessions and many seminars and workshops.
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While Dr. Carter does not conduct online counseling, he has vetted a group who can assist: https://betterhelp.com/survivingnarcissism
Books by Dr. Carter: https://store.bookbaby.com//bookshop/book/index.aspx?bookURL=When-Pleasing-You-Is-Killing-Me
Laura Charanza’s book: https://www.amazon.com/Ugly-Love-Survivors-Story-Narcissistic/dp/1543933874/ref=pd_sbs_14_3/131-8513366-6301765?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=1543933874&pd_rd_r=c01728bb-43b5-4bfe-a3fe-5b68d784c53a&pd_rd_w=dWQV3&pd_rd_wg=tpusd&pf_rd_p=52b7592c-2dc9-4ac6-84d4-4bda6360045e&pf_rd_r=WVP22RX65YFVJDXMRMJT&psc=1&refRID=WVP22RX65YFVJDXMRMJT
Dr. Carter’s online workshops about narcissism, anger management, and overcoming infidelity: http://drlescarter.com/video-workshops/
Dr. Carter’s other YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/drlescarter
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