1. Narcs predominantly only care about fulfilling their "needs" which are usually vain and hedonistic in nature.
2. Narcs care about others only to the extent that they can be used to fulfill their needs.
3. Narcs are very frugal in the energy they expend to fulfill their needs(thus why they like to use others as a shortcut). They will only invest if they can anticipate an immediate or timely payout.
4. Narcs are only able to fully immerse themselves in thoughts about themselves and likewise are only able to fully engage in conversations dealing exclusively with their self or immediate interests.
So… a narc walks into a comment section and spews out a bunch of spurious slanderous insults for reasons "unknown". A "normal" person who didn't like you for whatever reason would simply stop watching the video and move on. That being said, with everything I've said in mind, I'll let you be the judge of who exactly the narc was talking about in their long winded stream of spurious insults and why they put so much energy into it.
Is it weird that I feel bad for them? It's sad they're so hurt somewhere deep inside that they act the way they do and refuse to realize it. That being said, it's truly exhausting and futile to extend any effort to them. I'm in a relationship with a narc and I'm realizing I really underestimated this… only 5 months in. There have been two insightful moments that made me hopeful, but it might as well be two steps forward and a thousand steps any way but. So sad.
Good video! My past makes so much more sense now. When the “clarity” comes of what a narcissist is and how I’ve been trying to be clear as possible to get understanding and I got hostile rage back at me. This is why! 😱. No wonder he ramped up his game so much and yes, mine hates me to the point of stalking me because I was blessed to finally have clarity and leave. His reaction has been like I kicked a fire ant hill. Not good. You really need to run a good distance from one of those things. Moving 700 miles. People out there, once your moment of clarity on what they are comes you best be prepared to play possum until you don’t smell like supply, or run the fire ant gauntlet full on. Analogy complete, fire ants bite and come with flying monkeys. Yeah. It’s real. I love these videos. Thank you for this video that brings even more “clarity” to our situations as we live them. 🎻✌️
That pragraph is just mind-boggling how crazy (making) narcissists are. Thank u 4 sharing. It helps make it clearer what they're about. It's full of hate. Nothing real, with no basis for that hate. And full of confusion. Im still trying to understand & identify gas-lighting tho — cant see that aspect in this paragraph yet.
You are so, so, very CORRECT with this point. My divorce is just days old. You pegged my ex to the letter. Thank you and may your mission continue to help those who are ABUSED by NARCS. Kenny
My narc says I mumble. LOL If you look up PF Wonder Salve Interview on youtube, you can tell I, like you, speak correctly and with clarity and sound a lot like you!!! My narc always barks WHAT?! When I speak. I really do speak like you. It's unbelievable how he manipulates and gaslights. I often repeat myself in a slower, louder monotone voice after he barks "WHAT?!" Maybe it bothers him I speak well. They make me sick.
Been on a long journey recovering from narcissistic bully at work. If only I'd found your content sooner 💕 Still helping me from slipping back in to bad habits–like not keeping personal boundaries intact 💕
Wow! The demon really showed itself there! I do believe there is possession involved in narcissism and they show their true selves a lot. So that narc gave some Truth then did some projecting, lol, and we can see their tricks. Good breakdown! Thank you 🙏🏻 ❤️
So I clearly and concisely tell something to a narc and they respond. "I get you" , as if to say, what you said was not very clear at all but I, only I can understand your pitiful attempt at communication. They are masterful and condensing covert attacks with vocal intonation facial expression, and complete and total "non-mirroring" body language . More than words . "Its a vibe" …. Keep shining !
Oh wow, heard that a lot from narcs…"you want everyone to think like you, yada yada". So recognisable. Anyway, yes, clarity. They hate it because it exposes them for what they are.
Once you are forearmed with knowledge, you become weed killer that kills to the roots. The more knowledge that spreads, the more weeds we choke. The less narcissists there are, the less narcissists will be created. Eventually they’ll be dodos- extinct. Historical personality disorder consigned to history. What a golden day that will be.
People like this want you to apologize just for being who you are……for even existing. They don't like you for just being you. They especially hate thinkers. You don't have to explain yourself to people like this because they just laugh at you……they don't even care. They already know the truth deep inside, but will never admit it. I believe it gives them supply that you even acknowledged them. They have to get attention by any means necessary, and they don't mind how mean and/or out of order they become to get it. They are jealous of you and hate your positive qualities, as you have said. They don't like boundaries that you set and that makes them angry because they know you won't allow them to have their way with you.
This was great! You had a narc fall right into your clarity trap 😂🤣 Notice how the things this person said were so random. Their thought patterns are random, and they speak in the same manner.
So ive said this before on other videos that I work with a Narc. Lately we've been short staffed so we've been talking alot more… or should i say she has been. You definitely hit it on the nail with the merky messy converstion but another thing she does is talk over people. Several times ive either have spoken over her on purpose and thrown in an extra line just or question or if im saying something important ive put my hand up as to say "i need you to shut up for a sec" and then when she stops i talk. Its exhausting
My ,my ,you hit the nail on the head , bravo , they really really Hate clarity and clearness of words , it shows strength attenion to ones self ,and thats hated by these horrendous sad humans beings
totally agree, they don't want clarity because then they can deny saying it. Having a discussion with this kind, to quote Dr. Phil, "Is like nailing jello to the wall."
They hate our positive traits because they can't fake them successfully every time no matter how hard they try. They hate that we do good so naturally and with such ease when everything good they do is for a selfish motive.
They can’t handle logic. That was a great example of a narcissists in action he she contradicted themselves. The whole thing was ridiculous!! They were trying to sound so upright and all they did was show their disorder. No you wouldn’t want to speak with clarity or be conscious of that you said!! I have to laugh 😆 That was a great example of a narcissistic person at their finest!!
Oh boy have I seen the narc exchanges on your videos. I even exchanged with some of them. It was wild and they are really out of control trying to be in control. lol
Ha'Haaaa… "She said their life is a testament to inefficiency…!!" Classy..!! 💅..👒..🎩..👔 Furthermore.. Notice how the Narc defined her position for her..!! As though she needs their impaired, toxic Azz to assist her with in how to think…!! That's that false arrogance that they already know what's best for other people despite the FACT that they are an Empty Vessel that cannot find their own rear end with a road map…!?! 😁 Yep.. Exponential Gas Lighting here..!! My suggestion..!! 100% Absolute 💩's Deficiency..!! (🚫💩's Given ✋) I don't acknowledge "Brain Farts..!!" If the Narc's mouth is moving, best believe it's a Toxic Brain Fart..!! 😒 Thanx..!! 😎..✈
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Growingandlearning
So true..I totally agree that they really hate clarity of thought anf action 🙂
Bilo's Barnyard
Here's some linear thinking for you.
1. Narcs predominantly only care about fulfilling their "needs" which are usually vain and hedonistic in nature.
2. Narcs care about others only to the extent that they can be used to fulfill their needs.
3. Narcs are very frugal in the energy they expend to fulfill their needs(thus why they like to use others as a shortcut). They will only invest if they can anticipate an immediate or timely payout.
4. Narcs are only able to fully immerse themselves in thoughts about themselves and likewise are only able to fully engage in conversations dealing exclusively with their self or immediate interests.
So… a narc walks into a comment section and spews out a bunch of spurious slanderous insults for reasons "unknown". A "normal" person who didn't like you for whatever reason would simply stop watching the video and move on. That being said, with everything I've said in mind, I'll let you be the judge of who exactly the narc was talking about in their long winded stream of spurious insults and why they put so much energy into it.
Brenda Davis
Excellent information!!! Excellent Clarity!!!
HBMR334
I really like your "smiling" voice, it makes the dealing with NPDs a kind of funny.
Sonja De Zeeuw
I was so confused with the paragraph you read. I didn’t understand a word of it.
Deanna Hart
Is it weird that I feel bad for them? It's sad they're so hurt somewhere deep inside that they act the way they do and refuse to realize it. That being said, it's truly exhausting and futile to extend any effort to them. I'm in a relationship with a narc and I'm realizing I really underestimated this… only 5 months in. There have been two insightful moments that made me hopeful, but it might as well be two steps forward and a thousand steps any way but. So sad.
bo william
Great analysis. Gas lighting, projection 101.. Twilight Zone, the Upside Down. Comes to mind.
deb keeling
Good video! My past makes so much more sense now. When the “clarity” comes of what a narcissist is and how I’ve been trying to be clear as possible to get understanding and I got hostile rage back at me. This is why! 😱. No wonder he ramped up his game so much and yes, mine hates me to the point of stalking me because I was blessed to finally have clarity and leave. His reaction has been like I kicked a fire ant hill. Not good. You really need to run a good distance from one of those things. Moving 700 miles. People out there, once your moment of clarity on what they are comes you best be prepared to play possum until you don’t smell like supply, or run the fire ant gauntlet full on. Analogy complete, fire ants bite and come with flying monkeys. Yeah. It’s real. I love these videos. Thank you for this video that brings even more “clarity” to our situations as we live them. 🎻✌️
C Hark
That pragraph is just mind-boggling how crazy (making) narcissists are. Thank u 4 sharing. It helps make it clearer what they're about. It's full of hate. Nothing real, with no basis for that hate. And full of confusion. Im still trying to understand & identify gas-lighting tho — cant see that aspect in this paragraph yet.
Slim Pickins
You are so, so, very CORRECT with this point. My divorce is just days old. You pegged my ex to the letter. Thank you and may your mission continue to help those who are ABUSED by NARCS. Kenny
Jacqueline Hartfield
YOU ARE A 💯% TRUE FACT AND A BLESSING TO MANY POSITIVE MINED PEOPLE!!! 😃 THANK YOU!!!! 😀🤗💓
F32
This person was talking about themselves. Narcissists are so gross.
stylishranchgirl
My narc says I mumble. LOL If you look up PF Wonder Salve Interview on youtube, you can tell I, like you, speak correctly and with clarity and sound a lot like you!!! My narc always barks WHAT?! When I speak. I really do speak like you. It's unbelievable how he manipulates and gaslights. I often repeat myself in a slower, louder monotone voice after he barks "WHAT?!" Maybe it bothers him I speak well. They make me sick.
Yaunee Plant Beauty Services
I love u n clarity
Yaunee Plant Beauty Services
Narcs are funny frm affair
Chris C
Been on a long journey recovering from narcissistic bully at work.
If only I'd found your content sooner 💕 Still helping me from slipping back in to bad habits–like not keeping personal boundaries intact 💕
Chris C
Great advice re emails and 'writing it down', especially at work! Excellent defence when/if narcissist twists your words
briiigiiijaureguiii
HOLY CRAP YES!!!!!!
P.s. Ms Projexonperfexon that one.
Freakos.
Apoe Dinel
Wow amazing wow.. so awesome thank you u help in so many ways best stuff ever🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘😁😁😁😁
Da Baum
Wow! The demon really showed itself there! I do believe there is possession involved in narcissism and they show their true selves a lot. So that narc gave some Truth then did some projecting, lol, and we can see their tricks. Good breakdown! Thank you 🙏🏻 ❤️
R DM
10 narcs didn't like the clear video lmao
Tara Malouf
❤
Tully Soulliere
Narcs do love a reaction but not a well thought out appropriate response, they like to pressure in one way or another!….rotten childish jerks!
AquanautSt1
So I clearly and concisely tell something to a narc and they respond. "I get you" , as if to say, what you said was not very clear at all but I, only I can understand your pitiful attempt at communication. They are masterful and condensing covert attacks with vocal intonation facial expression, and complete and total "non-mirroring" body language . More than words . "Its a vibe" …. Keep shining !
Maggie Vada
Your channel is SPOT ON, DON'T CHANGE anything.
Lu Waller
Oh wow, heard that a lot from narcs…"you want everyone to think like you, yada yada".
So recognisable.
Anyway, yes, clarity. They hate it because it exposes them for what they are.
Jennifer Ierace
Talk about word salad. OMG I knew it was a Narc after the first line.
Hai-mé Jacob
Once you are forearmed with knowledge, you become weed killer that kills to the roots. The more knowledge that spreads, the more weeds we choke. The less narcissists there are, the less narcissists will be created. Eventually they’ll be dodos- extinct. Historical personality disorder consigned to history. What a golden day that will be.
Shanta Webb
People like this want you to apologize just for being who you are……for even existing. They don't like you for just being you. They especially hate thinkers. You don't have to explain yourself to people like this because they just laugh at you……they don't even care. They already know the truth deep inside, but will never admit it. I believe it gives them supply that you even acknowledged them. They have to get attention by any means necessary, and they don't mind how mean and/or out of order they become to get it. They are jealous of you and hate your positive qualities, as you have said. They don't like boundaries that you set and that makes them angry because they know you won't allow them to have their way with you.
K love
Thank you for your hope Cause I Talkjust like you And I thought in The Bible so amen
Cindy Myers
This was great! You had a narc fall right into your clarity trap 😂🤣 Notice how the things this person said were so random. Their thought patterns are random, and they speak in the same manner.
Kimberly Calderon
So ive said this before on other videos that I work with a Narc. Lately we've been short staffed so we've been talking alot more… or should i say she has been. You definitely hit it on the nail with the merky messy converstion but another thing she does is talk over people. Several times ive either have spoken over her on purpose and thrown in an extra line just or question or if im saying something important ive put my hand up as to say "i need you to shut up for a sec" and then when she stops i talk. Its exhausting
Denise Hain
My ,my ,you hit the nail on the head , bravo , they really really Hate clarity and clearness of words , it shows strength attenion to ones self ,and thats hated by these horrendous sad humans beings
Robin Coulter
totally agree, they don't want clarity because then they can deny saying it. Having a discussion with this kind, to quote Dr. Phil, "Is like nailing jello to the wall."
Eternity With Christ
They hate our positive traits because they can't fake them successfully every time no matter how hard they try. They hate that we do good so naturally and with such ease when everything good they do is for a selfish motive.
getsirius100
I love your voice! It's so cute how you say "hey you tube" I always say it with you.
Alice Roberts
They can’t handle logic. That was a great example of a narcissists in action he she contradicted themselves. The whole thing was ridiculous!! They were trying to sound so upright and all they did was show their disorder. No you wouldn’t want to speak with clarity or be conscious of that you said!! I have to laugh 😆 That was a great example of a narcissistic person at their finest!!
Kim McLeod
We love your clarity PTE
Deanna Lea
You are totally right!!! That's what they are – ALL OVER THE PLACE!
Kim McLeod
Oh boy have I seen the narc exchanges on your videos. I even exchanged with some of them. It was wild and they are really out of control trying to be in control. lol
Always Levitated
Ha'Haaaa… "She said their life is a testament to inefficiency…!!" Classy..!! 💅..👒..🎩..👔 Furthermore.. Notice how the Narc defined her position for her..!! As though she needs their impaired, toxic Azz to assist her with in how to think…!! That's that false arrogance that they already know what's best for other people despite the FACT that they are an Empty Vessel that cannot find their own rear end with a road map…!?! 😁 Yep.. Exponential Gas Lighting here..!! My suggestion..!! 100% Absolute 💩's Deficiency..!! (🚫💩's Given ✋) I don't acknowledge "Brain Farts..!!" If the Narc's mouth is moving, best believe it's a Toxic Brain Fart..!! 😒 Thanx..!! 😎..✈