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• “Maybe I’m just too sensitive.”
• “Maybe it’s me.”
• “Maybe this is actually all just my fault.”
• “Maybe it’s true that I’m overreacting.”
Narcissistic parents will never understand the breadth of their impact on kids.
The effects on the child of narcissistic parenting can be devastating. One form of narcissistic fathers is the “helicopter dad” who hovers over the child. This form of protection is NOT protection–it’s SMOTHERING!
Done for dad’s own needs, he helicopters, most likely to control the child, or because he has his own injuries from childhood based on being under protected and now paranoid. His overprotection is for his own comfort, at the expense of his child.
This creates negative core beliefs in the child like “The world is not safe” or “I am special–but in a weak way,” or “I am not competent enough to handle my own life.”
The hallmark of narcissism is lack of empathy, inability to put the child before the parent, and feeling like you are constantly being Demeaned, Devalued and Destroyed.
At the end of the day, the children of narcissistic parents feel “less than” and because CHILDHOOD IS A HOSTAGE SITUATION and they can’t say what they really feel because the parent has no capacity for empathy, they are locked in the DOUBLE DUNGEON OF DARKNESS and end up imploding with depression, or exploding in anger.
From a MIND MAP perspective, fathers were not there to nourish the mother and nourish the family enough for proper emotional development.
Daughters of narcissistic fathers have to watch for developing core beliefs like “I’m not important, or special.” Daughters also have to watch for not becoming involved with emotionally unavailable men.
Sons of narcissistic fathers have to watch for developing core beliefs like “I’m not good enough” and make sure they don’t attach to a woman who will demean devalue and destroy them.
We Shrunk The Tune: “No Son Of Mine,” by Genesis