How To Make The Narcissist Obsessed With You



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The music made this seem like a horror movie

I want my narcissist to become obsessed over me so he can feel the pain I did for him stupid asshole !!!

I don’t want make anyone obsessed with me, especially a narcissist like my ex. But are they going to change? I mean are they going to realise that they are having issues? Does a narcissist realises one day and does he has the will to change? It is very confusing for me, at some point in my relationship with him i was convinced that i am the guilty one, i even got the feeling that he is a very good man and i am the beast. I noticed all these signs only that i didn’t know it is a disorder, now that in know i feel free, hope you understand what i am trying to say. I would like a coaching one to one, how do i do that? Thanks

Mine ghosted
I sent a video
On when the narcissist
Disappeared
I have not heard
Back don't think
I will. Also I blocked
My phone and media
I found out the hard way
They can hurt you like that

I don’t want them obsessed with me I want them to leave me be . I have narc adult son I’m trying to learn with him in mind four years silent treatment my boy. It’s heartbreaking. I have quite a history long story , it is what it is
Thank you for your insight and help

YOU KNOW A PERSON GOT TO BE TOTALLY FUCKED UP. WHEN THEY ARE WITH A PERSON THAT THEY KNOW IS DECENT AND FOR SOME ODD REASON THAT MAKES THEM HATE THE PERSON. A PERSON THAT HATE A PERSON THAT CARE ABOUT THEM. THAT IS A DEMON NOT A PERSON. IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THE NARCISSIST BEING FOOLISH. THEY ARE A DEMON. LET THEM MOTHERFUCKERS GO AND LIVE IN THEIR ON MISERABLE SPACE. YOU STAY OUT THAT SPACE.

Am I just thinking too hard about these descriptors or am I actually having narcissist tendencies?

My narc has two women is his past that he sees as absolute Goddesses. And well, they both rejected him. One he dated for a very short time. And one he never even dates. Yet they can do no wrong. Meanwhile, I, who love him and would have done anything to make him happy when we were together, could do no right. And after things ended, I really got angry with him for a day or so. I went off on him. And during that day or so when I was going off on him in texts, he treated me with more respect than he had the entire last year of our relationship. This video makes perfect sense.

Narcicist women usually come across a fast and loose , they also prey on guys who are weak minded

Very good insights! Thanks because I have had to deal with a narcissist and because I have the advantage of knowing how they think, it made it easier.

24:00 <They Will obsess over you more> Finding out you are seeing someone else causes an injury to their ego. I watched a Narc get so worked up over someone who beat him to the discard. (I discussed alternate ways to handle what was not even a real situation) In his offense of her moving on so soon after he blatantly told her she was not wifey for him but he expected to be able to still sleep with her as needed. So she said no thank you, I want more in a relationship and walked away. Because of this he decided she should move out of her house and let him move in. WTF! He was living with extended family. So her having hat nice home was unacceptable. So he began texting her and calling her even after she asked him not to. As he put it because he knew it pissed her off. Talking to her landlord about her lease ending soon… ect. CrAzY He kept insisting she was seeing the other guy while she was seeing him, So he had a right to get her house. <All while he was seeing new supply>

I block all narc, devil’s 👿💯👿💯👿💯👿💯👿💯💯👿

I don’t want them to obsessed with me. I want them to go away forever.

The worst part of being narc’d, is realizing how much time and energy was devoted to a worthless p.o.s.

No thanks. They are already obsessed and crazy as Hell!

Remember they want what you have,that you worked for. They will never give anything in return. They can't feel real love,they return love with hate. The more you love,the more they hate.take take take

so only the narcissist can have sex with others and expect you to not care. But if you do this…they will forget about you.
This video is patently wrong.

So that's it have sex with other people and they will leave you alone good fucking deal

Why would you want….lol nevermind. That's ENERGY. I clicked on this because I'm curious as hell! I'm so glad to be away from him. I have a lot of confidence in myself and it was much easier to cut ties. Very easy. I now study this personality type to explain to my DAUGHTER what to look for. My life is dope!

Damn, I don't even feel like a victim anymore. They suffer and hurt more than ANYONE

As soon as you show you are interested in them, the narcissists immediately lose their interest in you.

Obsessed like he was with his ex? No thank you – I want to get them OUT of my life ASAP!

I agree! after a discard, what the Narcissist needs to see of us is a normal and strong healthy human, one that's not trying to be something we're not.

Just as you say, the Narc is thinking they have removed and destroyed your strength as a human. and they are not expecting to see this strength in you!
Be confident this will sock them! and at the same time, you're just being you just as you should be!
for you, it's a win-win situation.
don't waste any time looking back at the Narc to see if this impact is real, just trust the fact you got the better of them and enjoy that confidence and trust the honesty you are now living!
And just as this video states, the Narc will now realize you are not for them anymore!
No more N-supply signposted, it's been replaced with a natural person who is without having to do anything but be you!

one additional thought, get over thinking you had a girl/boy-friend (wife/husband) relationship,
what you really were experiencing was a wake-up call for you!
You were never going to be loved by them!
there was never going to be a relationship where this could evolve either!
Personally, this reality took me several years to realize before I quit calling this odd experience "My x girlfriend".
no concept a friendship was ever being played out by her.
I'm still trying to find a better conceptual word for describing such a non-relationship experience…
someone input their thoughts.

Thanks for this inspiring video narc survivor

Narcs are hobosexual, they get into relationships to avoid being homeless.

Sometimes I watch narcissist videos and then I think I’m a narcissist… But then I talk myself out of it…Then at random times it happens again lol

Does Narcissts are aware of it thet they are acting like that? Someone said to me that they could be not aware of it….

You gotta be about as sick as the narc if you want a narc obsessing over you. Especially if you're trying to go no contact with these clowns. That's what got us in the problem we're in now!

I don't want her to be obsessed with me , I know she's watching .

Walk away and let them go ,focus on yourself not the narcissist, your worth more your time on earth is precious dont waste it , don't lift a hand in anger ask the universe for justice it will come..leave the narcissist alone life your life in peace..

I have a man who is an na he has tried to harm me

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