This video answers the question: What are the signs of a husband who has narcissistic traits?
2. Wanting to control his wife’s appearance
3. Emotional needs are not attended to
4. Encourages children to disrespect wife
5. When choosing activities to do together, the husband only wants to engage in activities that are enjoyable for him
6. Extreme jealously of other men
7. Envious of wife’s success
8. Doesn’t listen, but expects a lot of attention and perfect memory
9. Downplays the contribution of raising children or taking care of the household
10. Views the wife as a support person dedicated to him
There are two types of narcissism: With grandiose narcissism we see characteristics like being extroverted, socially bold, self-confident, having a superficial charm, being resistant to criticism, and being callous and unemotional. Vulnerable narcissism is characterized by shame, anger, aggression, hypersensitivity, a tendency to be introverted, defensive, avoidant, anxious, depressed, socially awkward, and shy.
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