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07 – The Architecture of a Relationship with a Narcissist in 5 Phases

Narcissistic tendencies are the result of psychological defenses employed early in development when the child’s need for empathic reflection and mirroring was frustrated. Consequently, the adult narcissist relates to significant others in a characteristic pattern. Across five phases, the narcissist unconsciously attempts to pursue highly valued significant others then, through tactics of degradation and devaluation, seeks to extract their individuality and convert them into adoring mirrors.

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